I really enjoed the focus you placed on what we can control vs can't. I think this very thought process must help in the way you are doing better in aspects of your life (food, enviroment, etc). I suppose parts of me wish i could do all that i know i can do...but something ain't clicking yet. Also, thank you, really, for the support you give my writing by reading me and engaging with my stories, it's important to me to be able to create dialogue too. Well written piece, and thought provoking...i never thought about the stigma canver survival face depending on their mindsets, etc ...a result of toxic positivity?