Hi Chrisons, are we the same person? I'm 80 percent sure I have adhd. Also my anxiety gives me anxiety, in psych jargon we call it catastrophising.

Suppose, medication + therapy are usually the best thing, especially couples/family therapy. But, then again...don't listen to me! I love medications because it's easy, and can take it while interacting with no one!

BTW only thing I can assure you, it won't (the med) mess with your brain in the sense of you conscious self...just the hormones that might make you unnecessarily moody at times. Does it solve couple issue? Well, from my experience (and ynd's), no. Because I'm sure the problem with your marriage is not your depression. What it is, I don't know, I am no therapist after all...

Sometimes is about how the dance goes, and if we have the same rhythm with our dance partner...maybe...dunno.

but I'm sure the dancers themselves are great. At least, I know you are.